I have long considered a potted plant to be too great of a commitment. It’s not as though the thing would be in danger of falling down the steps if I neglected to put the baby gate up, or that it might possibly stick its fronds into an electrical outlet. Even so, a plant requires some level of care which makes the small raised-bed garden I keep in my back yard something of a large raised-bed irony, since during the growing season I visit it multiple times a day to see how the plants are faring (and later in the season, to see what sort of plump juicy gifts the sunshine yellow cherry tomato plants have to offer). The potted plant, though, is sure to be neglected and die a slow, withering death.
I tell you this because cut flowers fare even worse, which I imagine has something to do with their flowery nature which does not endear them much to me, and also the knowing that they have already died, their stems snipped so they could be shipped to the florist, and even if I did manage to tend to them, it would just be a matter of days. So I forget to freshen the water, and I forget to simply appreciate them, and usually, I forget to toss them out even after they have used up all the water and have curled up in their vase.
It’s strange, then, to keep getting this glimpse of cut flowers over my shoulder at my desk, in various states of demise, but still altogether lovely in the way flowers are meant to be. You see, I went to my local florist last week holding a copy of Megan Willome’s new book, The Joy of Poetry. “I need a flower, ” I told the woman who was arranging sprays of something on shelves packed full of votive holders and napkin rings. “A yellow one.” I pointed to the yellow flower on the cover of Megan’s book and said, “It would be good if it could look something like this.”
“You need a tulip, ” she said. “Or a daffodil.” She disappeared into the cooler as though that’s where they would keep such flowers, though she reemerged carrying an orange lily of some sort. “Or maybe a rose.”
The orange lily was unconvincing, so I asked for a rose spray to go with it for good measure. Clearly, tulips and daffodils were just a tease. I took them home and laid them with Megan’s book as though they were made for one another (the orange lily, in particular, nearly had me believing), snapped some pictures and then dutifully trimmed the stems and put the flowers in a cup of water. As though in some act of flowery defiance, they sit just behind me, opening up a little bit every day that they should be fading. I’ve told them they’ll get no more water from me. It seems to make them perk up even more.
The subtitle of Megan’s book arrests me: How to Keep, Save and Make Your Life with Poems. She quotes an interview Maureen Doallas did with poet Patty Paine who says, “poetry, the reading and the writing of it, has saved my life.” When I first started reading poetry, I did it to help me become a better writer. (It did.) When I started writing poetry, I did it to make my friends laugh on Facebook. (They did.) It didn’t take long, though, before I read (and wrote) the poems that would convince me that it needn’t be considered overly dramatic to say what Patty Paine did, that poetry can save one’s life.
So I am excited to be reading Megan’s book, which in some ways invites a person not only to find joy in poetry, but also to let it save him. And I am also excited to announce that we will be accepting Megan’s invitation together in our next book club, which will begin on May 4.
Here’s how it works:
We invite you to get a copy of the book (you can purchase The Joy of Poetry on Amazon) and read according to the schedule below. I’ll have a post each of the three weeks on the assigned chapters with some thoughts and some questions, and we’ll share our musings in the comments. If you have a blog and choose to post about the book you’re welcome to drop the link in the comments as well.
The Joy of Poetry Reading Schedule:
May 4: Chapters 1 – 6
May 11: Chapters 7 – 12
May 18: Chapters 13 – 18
We also invite you to explore the ideas in How to Keep, Save and Make Your Life With Poems beginning on page 148 and consider, at least for the duration of our book club, keeping a poetry journal or signing on a poetry buddy.
Featured rose image by Pedro Fernandes, Creative Commons license via Flickr. Post and book photo by LW Lindquist.
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Megan Willome’s The Joy of Poetry—part memoir, part poetry reflections, part anthology—takes readers on a journey to discovering poetry’s purpose, which is, delightfully, nothing. “Why poetry?” Willome asks. “You might as well ask, why chocolate?” Poetry reflects nothing more and nothing less than the pure joy of living, loving, and being, in all of its confusion and wonder. Willome’s book will gently guide you to read, write, and be a little more human through language’s mystery and joy.
—Tania Runyan, author of How to Read a Poem: Based on the Billy Collins Poem “Introduction to Poetry”
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michelle ortega says
This will be a great way to move through the book! I am finishing up “Where the Sky Opens,” by Laurie Klein, and was planning to jump right into TJOP~already have my copy ready to go. But, I’ll wait just a little bit and read along with the book club. Hooray! 🙂
Megan Willome says
Happy to have you, either way.
P.S. I abbreviated the book TJOP while I was writing it &/or making notes.
michelle ortega says
Great minds, Megan…;-)
Will Willingham says
Will be great to have you along, Michelle. (Even if you sneak in and read ahead of time. I’ve already started, myself. And it’s a beautiful book.)
Sandra Heska King says
SQUEEEEE!
Maureen says
Am reading Megan’s book now and hoping to do a written review. It’s a wonderful choice for a book club discussion.
Will Willingham says
Looking forward to seeing your review, Maureen. I agree; it will be a terrific book to read together.
Maureen says
Just finished writing it today. I scheduled it for the 20th.
Megan Willome says
Oh. My. Word. LW, you actually went into a flower shop with my book and said, “I need a flower. A yellow one.” Really? And now you have an honest to God spray behind you at your workspace?
I’m undone.
P.S. Potted plants are too great a commitment for me as well. I love cut flowers, but they suffer the same fate under my care as under yours. Next time I will try telling them what you did: “I’ve told them they’ll get no more water from me.” If they perk up even more, I’ll let you know.
Will Willingham says
I did go to the flower shop, yes. 🙂 It was an amusing little visit. Of course, no one can really match the flower on the cover, but there are so many other kinds of yellow flowers it seems we’ll always have something. I’m happy the rose has meaning for you.:)
Reminds me of when I was a kid and it was discovered that I suffered miserably from hay fever. I was told that I was allergic to ragweed, which was a plant I did not know, so I must have been told at some point it was a yellow flower. Which led me to believe I was allergic to yellow flowers in general. I worked pretty hard to avoid the marigolds, because that’s the only yellow flower I remember encountering. 😉
Maureen says
You both need to get succulents. The Washington Post’s Thursday section had a great article on them, complete with how-to. (P.S. They need very little care.)
Megan Willome says
🙂 Michelle DeRusha has a son who would agree.
Donna says
This is wonderful! Have been blocked from sharing on facebook but I will share share share when the glitch is unhitched. 🙂
Will Willingham says
Oh dear. I hope your FB troubles are short-lived. 🙂 Looking forward to reading with you.
Bethany Rohde says
I’m part way through this beautiful read. I’m looking forward to listening and sharing about it in community together.
Will Willingham says
Bethany, so glad you’ll be along for our read together. 🙂
Jerry says
I think I am man enough to join this journey. I am reading your book slowly. Little sips.
Donna says
Jerry, I read in very small sips, as well. This was a book that I did not want to skim or rush through. I’m glad you’ll join in! 🙂
Will Willingham says
Jerry, there’s much for a man to appreciate here. You might enjoy reading David Lee Garrison’s comments here: https://www.tweetspeakpoetry.com/book/joy-poetry-keep-save-make-life-poems/
Hope you see you during our book club, and look forward to hearing your thoughts. 🙂
Megan Willome says
Men are welcome! My husband is a man. My father is a man. My brother is a man. My son is a man. There are several male poets in the book. Sipping is entirely appropriate.
Marilyn Yocum says
Cool! The book is here and in my queue, but having firm dates always helps me get to things, so I’m going to try.
Donna says
Marilyn, that’s wonderful!
Will Willingham says
Marilyn, so pleased to have you along. I hope you join the conversation, even if you fall behind on the reading. 🙂
Megan Willome says
Thank you, Marilyn. Proud to be in your queue.
michelle ortega says
I’m so excited to enjoy this book with you all~the artistry is going to grow exponentially from this group, with this gorgeous read to guide us!
Bethany says
It will be a lovely and enriching time together. So glad you’ll be part of it, Michelle.
Laura Brown says
I’ll be there.
Bethany says
So glad you’re joining us, Laura.
Donna Falcone says
I am really looking forward to this. Just wanted to say so.. out “loud” (ahem … here in the soundproof pages of the internet). 😉
Bethany says
Love it, Donna. 🙂 So glad you’ll be there with us.